Becoming a Compassionate Congregation

1. Encountering the Example of Christ
All aspects of our ministry must be grounded in Scripture, specifically the distinctively Christian story of Jesus, in order to develop an understanding of servant ministry. Although much of the content of sermons and study material used in our denomination centers around the ministry of Jesus, a series of sermons and studies illuminating his compassionate acts and teachings could be developed to help the congregation comprehend the concept of servant ministry. As we delve into the Scriptures, we encounter the example of Jesus Christ as servant leader. Items bearing the letters WWJD — an acronym for "What would Jesus do?" — are currently very popular, reminding us to consider the action Jesus would take in a difficult situation. But to act accordingly, one must first know how Jesus behaved, knowledge gained by focused study of his life as recorded in the Bible.

First-century evangelists carried the new faith with them as they journeyed to far-flung parts of the ancient world, modeling the early church after the example of Christ. Shaped by communal concerns during times of change and adversity, caring for and supporting one another during dangerous attacks from the outside world, and ensuring the survival of the faith by crystallizing beliefs and teaching new converts strengthened their commitment to God and to their shared faith.

If possible, begin training compassionate companions with a retreat to facilitate group building and help participants focus on discernment without distraction. A weekend retreat apart would be ideal, but an all-day session at the church could be used as well. The purpose of the retreat is to further examine the concept of servant ministry after the example of Christ, which is integral to this program. This will be accomplished through a close study of the life of Jesus. Numerous studies are available, or you can create your own based on knowledge of specific needs of the congregation and community. The emphasis is on reflecting on the directives Jesus gave to the disciples through words and actions and reimagining how they can be applied in our contemporary setting.

2. Exploring the Wesleyan Traditions of Social Ethics and World Parish
After his ill-fated journey to the colonies, John Wesley returned to England dejected and discouraged. Following his "Aldersgate experience," however, he began a reform movement in the Anglican Church that laid the foundation for our modern denomination. Going beyond the church walls to people in fields, factories, and slums, he put his new fervor into action by addressing social issues of his day. His brand of "practical divinity," modeled after the example of Christ, put religion into practice. Essential to his model, however, was that his followers understand their scriptural mandate and the role of grace in their lives. Wesley's focus on grace still informs our belief that good works are a grateful response to, not a precursor of, the gift of God's grace and that the joy of realizing that grace elicits in us the desire to witness and serve in God's name. The practice of spiritual disciplines and personal accountability regarding the work they were doing for God solidified the early Methodists.

In this era of transition and mobility, denominational loyalty has become a concern for mainstream religions. Many in the congregation may not have a clear understanding of our United Methodist heritage, doctrine, and traditions. Wesley's vision of the work of the church is central to how we live out our faith and the foundation for caring ministry. Sermons illustrating Wesley's vision as well as Sunday school lessons or age-appropriate classes on our beliefs can help inform people of all ages. Studies for all ages are available, but innovative lay leaders may want to develop their own activities to address local needs.

3. Practicing Personal Disciplines of Faith
Part of the inward journey is the faithful practice of personal spiritual disciplines, including prayer, meditation, Scripture reading, and Christ-like action. Many United Methodists are surprised to learn that fasting is a part of our faith heritage. Setting aside time to be with God through study, prayer, and meditation helps us focus with renewed commitment on Christ's example and opens our hearts and minds to new opportunities for service.

4. Discovering Spiritual Gifts
Many in the congregation may also be unfamiliar with the concept of spiritual gifts and their role in communal life. In 1 Corinthians 12-14, Paul presents a lengthy dissertation on the many and varied gifts of the spirit which, when practiced in an orderly manner, he feels will restore the much-needed koinonia (Christian community) in the fractious congregation. Sharing our gifts in love for one another and instructing the community of faith helps reestablish the koinonia present in the early church by strengthening an understanding of our call to community and by providing opportunities for communal practices.

Many are led to compassionate ministry after living through painful personal experiences. Older adults have often suffered many losses, e.g., jobs, loved ones, physical abilities — losses that can strengthen their gifts for being present for others. Those who will be serving as compassionate companions will benefit from small-group discussions of the works of Henri Nouwen on using our wounds to care for others, books on developing spiritual gifts, and guided self-study on identifying their gifts for ministry.

5. Learning Necessary Skills
Although only some will become compassionate companions working directly with individuals, give the entire membership opportunities to learn effective ministry skills to use in their daily lives. General instruction on being present for others can be conveyed through sermons or articles in newsletters or bulletins, while more in-depth study of specific topics is addressed through speakers for church suppers, UMW and UMM programs, and Sunday school classes. An ongoing compassionate ministry training program, with concentrated initial study as well as continuing education and support, will help participants develop their gifts and provide valuable assistance to the pastor and professional staff in providing care for the congregation and community.

The Journey Outward