Honestly, I am not much of an alarmist.
It seems wise to avoid over-reacting. We sometimes can create
false impressions of trends, based on dramatic isolated incidents.
Its tempting, therefore, to conclude that youth attacking other
youth or adults are utterly rare occurrencesnothing more than
deeply unfortunate oddities. We hear about shootings at schools,
from Arkansas to Oregon, and about youth killing or injuring youth
in other settings. It seems implausible that this is actually
a growing pattern. Most youth we know dont cause this kind of
harm. Objective data, however, reveal a very real trend toward
more extreme violence among young people. According to one statistic
I read, 12,000 children and youth were killed last year alone.
Mary Logan, General Council on Finance and Administrations legal
staff, recently called me to say, Its important that Camp/Retreat/Conference
Center Directors realize that this kind of situation can happen
at our United Methodist sites. We need to prepare our staff to
intervene and lessen the potential harm. We need to heed her
advice and discuss this with our staff.
Share the following with your staff and volunteers. We must understand
that, even though our ministry involves providing an atmosphere
of love, mutual respect, and support, some youth may bring feelings
of rage with them from other situations. The causes of this rage
vary from frustrated hope, to feeling unloved, to fears of all
sorts. In our current social environment, violence is unwittingly
presented as a viableand perhaps even glorifiedresponse to problems
or disappointment. An entire sector of the video game industry
focuses on engaging youth in scenario after scenario where they
must overcome obstacles by killing villains.
TV shows and movies continue to emphasize violence, apparently
because people want to view it and will pay for it. We are naive
to think that these images dont penetrate hearts and minds, and
carry over into real life. Fist-fighting is being replaced by
guns and knives.
Four important things to remember:
1. Treat threats of physical harm seriously, much as we take seriously every threat of suicide. Often, youth tell someone before they
commit an act of violence. Unfortunately, if theyve never done
anything like that before, people dont take it seriously until
its too late.
2. Investigate reports of weapons onsite or in a vehicle, and immediately confiscate all items appearing
to be weapons. Weapons are much more readily accessible than they
used to be, so it is possible that they are present even when
we cant imagine why someone would bring them to a Christian camp
or retreat experience.
3. State clearly in initial orientations that weapons and violence
arent permitted and wont be tolerated. Violence is a spiritual matter that should be handled lovingly
with both the individual and community in mind. Reacting to anger
with anger fuels the fire. Our faith formation and Christian teaching
encourage us to include lessons on nonviolence as a way of life.
4. Since serious incidents often require follow-up with professional
support, be sure to contact parents whenever a situation like this arises.
Kevin Witt,
National Director of Camp/Retreat Ministry
General Board of Discipleship